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My chinese name is Yin Ling and baby Minori's unofficial middle name is Yen. Both Yin and Yen mean swallow (as in the bird) in chinese. The same swallows that migrate to Malaysia in winter to escape the cold return to Japan when the weather begins to warm up. Like the swallows here, together with daddy, we make our trips between the two countries. Isn't it nice to have two places we can call home?

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Raising a girl

Imagine this:

"The #1 wish for girls ages 11 to 17 is to be thinner.

"One study of Saturday morning toy commercials found that 50% of commercials aimed at girls spoke about physical attractiveness, while none of the commercials aimed at boys referred to appearance.

"25% of high school seniors reported using illicit drugs in the past 30 days.

"Nationwide (in the US) 46% of students in grades 9 to 12 have had sex.

"14% of all 13-year-olds have had sex.

"Nearly 35% of all young women in the US become pregnant at least once before reaching the age of 20 -- almost 850,000 each year."

Quoted from: Vicki Courtney, Your Girl: Raising a Godly Daughter in an Ungodly World (Tennessee: Broadman & Holman Publishers, 2004), 7.

Isn't it worrying to be parents, especially of girls, at current times? While these statistics are for the US, I suspect that Japan isn't too far off. I picked up this book a few months back and finally got down to reading it. While it's targetted to parents, particularly mothers, of preteen, teenage and tween daughters, I just felt I had to read it now to help prepare myself for what I have to battle ahead. I'm still only in the midst of it but I'm already convinced of what I used to joke about all along... the world is out to get the girls.

And oooh.... the weight of parental responsibility! Chasing after a 2-year-old toddler even when pregnant doesn't even begin to describe it.

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3 Comments:

At 1:30 AM, July 14, 2007, Blogger Chi Hua Hua said...

maybe not good time for you to read this book leh...

 
At 2:55 PM, July 27, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said...

i finally got your URL thru my old blog's comments box ;-) Is this the book you were telling me?!

 
At 12:03 AM, August 02, 2007, Blogger mom.diaries said...

chi hua hua: need to get myself prepared for what is to come!

may: yes this is the book. full of scary facts but also excellent tips on how to prepare your daughter (and yourself!) before she becomes a teen. i'm a christian so the information is especially relevant to me!

 

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